May 06

Feels inferior is one kind of negative self-appraisal or the self-awareness, the inferiority is the individual to own ability and the quality appraisal somewhat low one kind of passive emotion. The inferiority production, often by no means knows difference, but is the difference which feels. Its root is the people does not like with the reality standard or the criterion weighs himself, but believes either supposes itself to achieve some kind of standard or the criterion. Like “I should thus and such and such”, “I be supposed to look like somebody to be the same” and so on. This kind of pursue mostly divorceds from the reality, will only multiply more worries and feels inferior, causes itself to be more despondent and to rebuke oneself. Feels inferior is archenemy of the life success. Since the ancient times, how many artificial feels inferior, but deep worried, how many artificial seeks for the method which overcomes feels inferior to search with hardship. Below these ways and the method have operationally, is helpful gets rid in the people feels inferior, moves toward self-confidently.

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May 06

The psychologist the psychological behavior performance which presenility the human, called that it “the psychological aging sickness”, its performance has ten kinds:

First, the competitive spirit degenerates to the enterprise has not innovated the mentality, often feels void tasteless, particularly the mental ability worker, feels more and more lacks the ability to do what one would like.

Second, an inferiority complex person’s time, will keep sighing frequently. Facing the time and the life, often felt that he fell behind.

Third, sometimes the response exceptionally at the same time, the special sensitivity, always thought the family member cannot be passing with the periphery person with, the anxiety grows thickly; Sometimes on the other hand, to occurs looks but not see at own matter, the response is desolate. Continue reading »

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May 06

When the husbands and wives have clashes of opinion, constrains angrily easy to cause the mortality rate rise, but quarrels actually the possible beneficial health.

According to Agence France Presse reported that US University of Michigan retirement Professor Ernest · the Hall fort leader’s research team constrains anger and even the hatred emotion in view of the marriage to the mortality rate the influence, from 1971 to 1988 a tracking investigation Michigan small town 192 pair of middle class husband and wife, the most wife are the housewife.

The researchers by the questionnaire survey way understood that these husbands and wives face “the unfair phenomenon” the time response way, 26 couples belong to “both sides to damp anger”, namely husbands and wives both sides when presents the conflict constrain their mood; In other 166 couples, one of them will express own anger at least, will belong to “non-both sides to damp anger”. Continue reading »

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